Kennebec Tales

December 18, 2013

Honor Ayla Reynolds by saving another Maine kid

Maine Children’s Alliance Maine Kids Count report shows that many of the state’s children are “lost” daily, but saving them is possible.

Today marks two years and two days since Ayla Reynolds was reported missing.

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Ayla Reynolds

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Anniversaries like this are always a mixed bag — sad comments from everyone from family and friends to strangers who didn’t know the child, but still deeply feel the tragedy.

But that sorrow is joined by the anger of Ayla’s family, still looking for answers after the 20-month-old was reported missing from her Waterville home Dec. 17, 2011.

“Demand answers from the state,” said a statement issued last week by the family of Trista Reynolds, Ayla’s mother. “Why are those present in the house where Ayla’s blood was shed decorating their trees and hanging their stockings, while Ayla is out in the cold unknown for another Christmas?”

Most rational adults would say if they could have done anything to keep from whatever happened to Ayla from happening to her, they would have.

As it is, people are left holding candles at countless vigils, or posting theories and accusations on the Internet. There’s not much else anyone can do after the fact.

The family statement asks that to honor Ayla, the public should “press for justice.”

Police have said that the search for clues in the child’s disappearance is the largest the state has ever had. The investigation has cost the state and the city of Waterville hundreds of thousands of dollars.

Where do we press?

And yet, people are frustrated. The average person is powerless to do anything to close the Ayla case.

Ayla, like all children, was lovely and special.

And like Ayla, all children deserve a chance to be saved.

Last month, the Maine Children’s Alliance released its yearly Maine Kids Count report, which showed the number of children living in poverty in Maine continues to increase. Some 19.3 percent of the state’s children under 18 were living in poverty in 2011.

In Kennebec County, the number is a little better than the state average: 18.2 percent. But in Franklin County it’s 24.4 percent and in Somerset County it’s 27 percent.

The 52-page study also found that one in four Maine children has had an “adverse experience” including the separation or divorce of parents, a parents’ drug use, socioeconomic hardship and domestic violence. Those experiences have contributed to a spike of children in state custody, in families receiving federal Women, Infants and Children benefits and in children on food stamps.

The number of families receiving Temporary Assistance for Needy Families was down, but only because of legislation that capped recipients at 60 months, according to the study.

“We used to be able to say that’s unacceptable to have that many kids in poverty, but the truth is, it’s there and we have been accepting it,” Ned McCann, director of the Maine Children’s Alliance, told the Portland Press Herald after the report was released.

Claire Berkowitz, director of data for the report and head of research for the alliance, told the Press Herald that there are a lot of reasons the poverty numbers are up, including substance abuse.

She pointed out that “sound data can be the basis for good public policy, because the results over time show how investments in kids can work for everyone.”

McCann urged the elected officials in the state to “step up to the plate for kids.”

What we know about Ayla Reynolds’ family situation is that her mom was in rehab and her dad, Justin DiPietro — who was not in a relationship with Trista Reynolds — was living in his mother’s Waterville home so he could have help caring for her. While there’s no evidence she was living in poverty, her story isn’t much difference from that of nearly one in four of the children in this state cited in the report who have the odds stacked against them.

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